Should We Have a First Look?
As you’re planning your wedding, you no doubt have many things to consider. As a photographer, one of the questions that my clients often ask is “Should we have a first look?”
More than anything, your wedding day is about you and your husband (or wife) to be. If any particular tradition is important to the two of you, then you should stick to it. However, if you and your fiancee are open to a different approach, there are definitely some great benefits to having a first look.
What is a first look?
A first look is a special time set aside before your wedding ceremony where you and your hubby to be can just take a moment to enjoy each other before the day gets crazy. When my client’s opt for a first look, the bride meets the groom and I at a predetermined, private place. This generally happens while I’m taking the groom’s portraits and we arrange for the bride to come up from behind him and tap him on the shoulder when she’s ready.
These are some of my favorite moments because the grooms always have the most incredible expressions and the candid photos are so emotional; definitely something the bride and groom treasure.
What are the benefits of having a first look?
One of the biggest reasons that I’m a fan of first looks is because it gives you and your honey a private moment to take it all in. Traditionally, the groom doesn’t see the bride until she’s walking down the aisle and all the craziness of the day has begun, his nerves (and yours) are going crazy. On my wedding day, the whole ceremony was a blur. On the other hand, a first look gives an opportunity for an intimate exchange that usually helps calm the wedding day jitters.
One of the other great benefits of having a first look is that you have plenty of time for bride and groom photos as well as bridal party photos before the ceremony, giving you optimal time after your ceremony to get through family portraits and spend more time with your guests; OR you can use the extra post-ceremony time to sneak away for a private moment!
Lastly, when you opt for a first look, you have full control. Since a first look is planned ahead of time, there’s no worrying about having enough time or daylight left to get the photos you want. This is especially useful for evening or winter weddings.
A bride’s thoughts…
Kamrin, one of my past brides, volunteered her experience with a first look:
“Morgan and I decided we wanted to have a first look because we wanted that special moment to ourselves. That’s one of the most memorable moments on a wedding day and it’s normally shared while walking down the aisle. We wanted to capture it better and share the moment one on one. I’m so glad we did because every time I look at those first look photos in our beautiful photo album I get those same butterflies all over again. I suggest that anyone considering a first look should DEFINITELY do it! It helped calm our nerves on our wedding day!”
What do you think? Would you consider a first look? Or do you prefer to keep the tradition of waiting until the ceremony?